New Spanking Technique

We had a wonderful trip! Getting out of the house, seeing our friends was just what we both needed. But I did learn something new in my travels. I thought I had seen it all or a least heard it all about spanking, but no – I learned about a whole new way on this trip!

You might remember that back when my friends and I went shopping at the sex store two of my friends bought leather paddle like the one I got. We had not been together since that trip to discuss there experiences and feelings. Now was the time.

On our second night, we ladies, exhausted from two full days of shopping were together in the kitchen. The men were off somewhere when the subject of the paddles came up. Well it didn’t just come up, I asked! Sue said it came out when her husband was feeling particularly frisky. Their’s is pure play as I knew it would be. If he used it for discipline with Sue he would have time for nothing else. She really gets away with murder and not one paddling to show for it! We laughed and giggled for a while then I asked Ann if they had tried hers out. Her blush answered for her as she hesitantly admitted that they used it several times a week. I was blown away. She is a shy delicate creature and this shocked me! I asked if it took long for her butt to toughen up and she replied quietly “Well, he doesn’t actually hit me with it.”

A Switch! -- she’s a switch!!? I have known her husband for 40 years – NO WAY! Sue and I were screaming with laughter. We were all five pretty hysterical. Ann was telling us No-No-No! It wasn’t that. She said “He doesn’t actually hit me; he hits the bed beside me.”

What?

“What’s the matter, honey” I asked “Is his aim just bad?” By this time we were all laughing so loudly that all the men came in, presumably to see what we were smoking. We told them to go away and leave us alone. When they left we all just turned to her and waited for an explanation. She started, “Well you see he started off actually hitting my bottom. But you see, Cassie, I had to tell him to stop – it hurt!

Oh really, who knew?

But that is how they do it! She lies on the bed and he hits the bed beside her. She says the sound excites her. I have just got to get Tom to change to this method!! Do you think I have a chance?

This was one of the best evenings I’ve had in a while, we had a ball. The two friends that had not been along on the toy shopping trip decided that they had to have something in the paddle line themselves.

Another shopping trip was in the works --

Happy Thanksgiving

I want to wish everyone an early Happy Thanksgiving. We will be headed out Tuesday morning. Don’t go into shock but I have managed to stay completely out of trouble all weekend! We will probably be back next weekend and I will be checking email while we are gone.

I am anxious to see if Tom will let me go shopping with the girls once we get there. The last shopping trip did not exactly meet with his approval! They all now know that I get spanked when Tom is unhappy about my behavior. But because I slipped off lasts week he may just flatly say that I am not allowed to go anywhere without him. To me that is more embarrassing than them knowing about the spankings. The idea of their husbands not ‘allowing’ them to do something is so foreign to them that if I tell them he won’t let me go I just get these incredulous looks wondering why I would put up with such control. That is a hard one to explain to women my age. Mostly I have two choices.

1. He says I can’t go and I sneak off anyway. (Not my plan on this trip – truly!)

2. I just explain to the girls that our lifestyle works for us. And let them think I am crazy.

It will be so much easier if he just relaxes and lets us all go and do our thing. But if he doesn’t I know I have no one to blame but myself. Cross your fingers!

Cassie

Prison Break

I think you all probably know that I have been in a grumpy mood on and off for several weeks now, well I haven’t been any better in the past few days. On Wednesday night I went to bed in an ill mood and got up just plain mad. Tom chose to ignore my behavior which made me all the madder. So when Tom went to work in his study I grabbed my keys and left. Ten minutes later my phone rang and I nearly had a panic attack! I will tell you that Danny and Mayye crossed my mind. I turned the phone off. I wasn’t sure where to go so after driving around for a bit I headed to my niece’s house.

When I got there Tom had already call to see if I was there. Of course she had truthfully told him that she had not seen me. She does not like Tom too much so she was a good audience to my rant. I was feeling like a prisoner and I was feeling smothered! I’ve been feeling like punching a wall, but I need at least one hand for typing!

Tom called back later and she told him again that she hadn’t seen me. But I knew that I better be getting home. I was beginning to feel very guilty. My niece wanted me to spend the night but feelings of self preservation kicked in and I knew I needed to show up at the house soon.

When I pulled in Tom was in the yard talking to a police officer, who is a friend of ours. Good grief, I hadn’t been gone 5 hours! Our friend spoke to me and left. Tom was mad; he was more upset than I had expected him to be. Lets put it this was he was so mad he didn’t spank me when I got home. He did give me a hug when I came up to him and asked me if I was alright. I told him I was fine. I went in and lay down in the bedroom. I just felt exhausted. Tom did not follow me to the bedroom and that surprised me.

Dinner was quiet and tense. When we finished Tom said “I thought we were done with this a long time ago.” I was feeling pretty guilty. I am more like Tiggr than I seem, at least I was when I was younger. During the first few years of our marriage I would disappear occasionally – not for long but it worried and angered Tom a great deal. I was having serious problems back then and this was nothing like that and he darn well knows that. But this may have stirred up some of these old fears.

When Tom said we were going to settle this once and for all my butterflies were intense. He asked me to wait for him in the bedroom. When he came in he said “I indulge you in nearly every way I can think of. I let you get away with murder because I love you and want you to be happy. But I will not put up with not knowing where you are and not being able to reach you by phone. I am putting my foot down Cassie.”

Unfortunately his foot was not the only thing he put down! He used his belt which surprised me. He was serious and thorough but not overly harsh. Tom was right. I should not have left without telling him and I certainly should have called him or answered my phone during the day. He would never leave and not be available to me. We are fine now and we have a trip planned for next week and that will be wonderful!

I probably won’t be able to blog while I am gone but hopefully I will be checking my email. We will be visiting my friends that went toy shopping with me. If I can find out I will let you know if they ever put their paddles to use!

Stolen Meme

I think I stole this from Elis who stole it from Theresa or something like that. Any way here goes --

What bad thing happened to you this week?

Tom played golf two afternoons and took my keys with him! I feel so trusted! Of course if he hadn’t I would have been out of here in a shot!

What good thing happened to you this week?

I got to do a bit more typing.

What did you have for breakfast?

French toast, strawberrys and coffee.

What is your favorite color?

I think blue, but sometimes I’m one of those pink girls.

What is your favorite fast food chain?

Tom doesn’t like fast food so we rarely go there together. When I can get away I like McDonald’s, Wendy, Bojangles and Arbys!

How much did your last fill up cost you?

The last time I filled up my own car gas was only 35 cent a gallon!

Do you have a job?

Not really, sometimes I am a substitute teacher, but mostly I am a kept woman!

If you had one wish in the whole world excluding winning the lottery what would it be?

That Tom and I die the same night right after we make love. In about 30 years! And I will take this wish over the lottery any day!

What time do you get up in the morning?

Usually around 8:00 am

What are your pet’s names?

Jeeter, Scooter, and Maco. Maco is the big sissy who runs when she first hears a spanking. Jeeter and Scooter run to watch.

Do they have nick names?

Not really.

How many times a week do you screw up word verification?

Every time I encounter one.

What is your favorite spanking position?

On the bed over Tom’s lap.

What is your favorite spanking implement?

Not the ivory hair brush (someday I am going to toss that thing!) I like the new leather paddle and the crop. Tom has never gone full force with the crop. Oh, strike all that, Tom’s hand is the best.

What is your favorite food?

I really like junk food. But chocolate is a pretty safe bet.

Coke or Pepsi?

Coke of course!

What is the best thing about blogging?

Of course the people!! Meeting people that I would have never met in real life, learning about things I would never have heard about anywhere else in the world. I have my very own friends now.

What color are your toenails?

Coral Peach

What is your favorite cocktail?

I usually stick to wine these days.

What is the worse part of your job?

I haven’t worked enough to have a worse part.

Have you implemented any new words into your vocabulary lately?

Oh my yes, blog, site, post, link. Tom is always trying to increase my vocabulary with word like ‘no’, ‘behave’, ‘listen’, ‘mind’ and on and on!

Tom Meets Sky

Every run by Sky's site to see what Tom had to say to her. It always surprises me when Tom wants to leave a comment!

Look! I linked to Sky's site and believe it or not, Elis taught me how to do it! Thanks Elis!

Meeting friends

A quick update on my hand, it’s fine! Healing nicely! The doctor says with the brace on I can cook, clean, shop, type and drive. I am after a second opinion. I need a doctor that will tell me I can type, shop and drive, but leave off the cooking and cleaning. Dr. Tom is still in charge here. He has eased up on the typing restriction, but it really is slow with only one hand. I need my wheels back for Christmas shopping soon. We are flying out to visit friends over Thanksgiving so at least I will be able to shop with the girls then. That is unless Tom remembers our last shopping trip! In that case who knows if he will let me out of his sight!

On to the real reason for this post, I wanted to tell you about the other day. Tom and I now spend a lot of time in the computer room. He moved in one of his big leather reading chairs and positioned it where he can see the monitor but I can’t tell when he is paying attention or not. I often forget that he is in the room when I get caught up in reading or writing. That’s what happened the other day when I was absorbed in what I was doing and he was reading quietly.

I jumped a foot when he said quite sharply “Good grief Cassie, what are you looking at! I don’t think that that is one of your girlfriends!” I had to look back at the monitor to figure out what he was talking about, and then I realized – Oh!

He was pulling a chair up to the computer when I said “Well, yes it is honey, meet Sky.”

“This is Sky! THIS is Sky??”

“Yes.”

“What exactly is all this?”

“It’s her profession.”

“Exactly what is her profession?”

“She used to be a police officer.”

“I didn’t ask what she used to do, what does she do now?”

So I explain as well as I could. He just stared at me like I had begun speaking in a foreign language. I didn’t want to take him on a complete tour so I headed that possible request off by asking if he wanted to see some of her other outfits. This was where she was in the striking red outfit. I found a few of the other and Tom just sat there. He started smiling and finally he was laughing when he remembered something I had once said. He asked “Didn’t you tell me a while back that you wished you could go shopping with Sky because you loved her taste in clothes?” I told him, yes and gave him a big grin!

He went back to his chair laughing and said “Do you see why I don’t want you meeting these people anywhere but the computer? I am just not ready for you to come in wearing that little red number with a rose tattoo!”

It’s a shame, Sky; we could have a ball shopping! Tom is keeping me off guard these days. Some things that I would have thought would had sent him through the roof he just laughs at. Yet let me hold down the shift key with my brace and I get my bottom warmed. Some days I think he is just looking for excuses because I’ve been so good lately it drives him crazy! Well, mostly good. Well, nothing he will find out about anyway!!

It's all Blogger's Fault!

I thought that delurking day was absolutely lovely! But later that day when blogger began acting up it caused me more that a few problems. Tom had let me post so then I wanted to answer my comments. He was getting annoyed with me but he said okay. I answered about half and stopped to rest. When we settled down later I answered the rest of the comments while Tom was in the room with me reading. It took me over an hour but when I tried to publish it all went away! And being the calm, patient woman that I am I yelled “Son of a bitch!”

I heard Tom say “Cassie what in the world!” And I let him have it. I yelled at him about blogger. I yelled at him about my hand. I yelled at him for not letting me type when I wanted to. I yelled at him about him not letting me drive. I yelled at him because I couldn’t comb my own hair. I guess I would have yelled at him for the national debt and gobal warming but I ran out of steam and started crying. He cuddled me on his lap while I tried to get hold of myself. But I was still frustrated. I told him to quit being so bossy. I told him that I would drive and type when I wanted to. I ended by saying “I am staying here until I get the dumb computer to do what it is supposed to do!”

Believe it or not I was wrong! He had me over his knee pretty fast and he went to town on my rear. He stopped in a minute but he didn’t let me up. He said “I know you have had a frustrating week, but if you think you are going to cuss and fuss and tell me what you will and won’t do you’ve got another think coming. I want you in the bedroom, undressed and on the bed in 10 minutes.” I said “But you just spanked me.” He only answered was “Move!”

When he came in the bedroom he picked up the leather paddle, this is not quite the harmless toy it seemed when I bought it. He really seemed more into lecturing than spanking but he was willing to drive his points home on my bare bottom! He started off telling me that I would not be driving until my hand healed, that he would take me anywhere I needed to go and he didn’t want to hear any more about it. He then got into more dangerous water when he told me that if the computer was going to make me cuss and fuss I could stay off the thing permanently! Tell me is this fair? Doesn’t every one of you cuss and fuss when you lose something that you have been working on. This didn’t seem like the best time to point this out so I kept my mouth shut.

He finally asked me if I understood and I assured him that I did. He was helpful in rubbing the sting away since this is also difficult one handed. Of course this rubbing led to more and it turned out to be a lovely evening after all, all things considered.

I’ve got no business yelling at Tom, he has been a doll through all this and in truth the pampering has been over the top. Honestly, the baths alone have been almost worth having a broken hand! He is letting me type now in moderation, this took over three days. He has also assured me that if he catches me trying to maneuver the mouse with my right hand again I will not be sitting at the computer or anywhere else for that matter, for several days. You give it a try – sit on your right hand and try to blog. Do you see the hardships I must endure! Oh what a life! LOL

Thank You!

I want to thank everyone for coming by on delurking day. I so enjoyed reading all your comments and it was wonderful seeing such a mix of old friends and new ones. The doctor has no problem with me typing one handed or driving for that matter. But others don’t share his opinion. But I think Tom is going to lighten up a bit though.

This was a rough day when I did get to type and blogger kept eating my work and would not let me comment or post. With typing this slow it nearly drove me crazy! I am leaning to save my work. More soon, but thanks again for stopping by and please come back or email anytime.

Everyone is Welcomed!

To my silent friends, I wanted to join everyone today to invite you to please leave a comment to say hello. I am not supposed to be blogging yet. I know none of you will believe this but I had a passing thought of sneaking on here to blog this but I had a funny feeling that Tom might just check in to see that I was minding him. Although I don’t know why he wouldn’t trust me! I always do what he tells me to! So I got his permission for this only.

I was able to get his permission by explaining how important I thought this was. I would be thrilled to meet, through your comments, anyone who has ever come by my blog. I would love to read any comments you might leave, especially now that my time to type is very limited. Maybe you could keep me entertained for a bit. Please leave some name so that I might know you if you ever return. If you are not ready to leave a comment, email me. But please, it is safe. Just say Hello.

I am mending very nicely and as some of you have surmised being pampered to the hilt! But one hand, left handed typing is for the birds! This took forever. But if you comment or email I will respond, slowly, but I will.

Hope to hear from you,
Cassie